Gift of Grace #3 - The Downward Spiral

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Dr. Kurt Bjorklund explores Romans 1:18-23 to reveal how understanding God's justified wrath against our self-directed living is essential to appreciating His amazing grace. Discover why coming to Jesus isn't just about making life better—it's about recognizing our desperate need for salvation from the consequences of suppressing truth and exchanging God's glory for lesser things.

 

Summary and Application

There are certain Bible verses that should trouble us—not because they're unclear, but because they're all too clear about the human condition and God's response to sin. In his recent message on Romans 1:24-32, Kurt explores one of those troubling passages: the phrase "God gave them over," which appears three times in rapid succession.

The Water Slide Analogy

Kurt uses a vivid image to help us understand this passage: an abandoned water park. Unlike a normal water slide where you end up safely in a pool, picture getting on a slide where "what's at the bottom is not what you actually want to experience." This is the reality of the downward spiral of sin—once you're on it, momentum takes over.

But here's the good news embedded in this difficult passage: "Grace could be defined with the old acrostic... God's Riches At Christ's Expense. But what grace is, is not getting what it is we deserve. So even once we're on the slide, it's God pulling us out of the slide, whether we're part way down or all the way down at the bottom."

Three Spirals Downward

The passage describes three progressive stages where "God gave them over":

1. From Innocence to Indulgence (Romans 1:24-25)

The first spiral involves sexual impurity. "Therefore God gave them over in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another" (Romans 1:24).

Interestingly, Kurt points out that secular culture is rediscovering what Scripture has always taught about sexual faithfulness. Authors like Louise Perry argue that "hookup culture and the associated promiscuity often benefits a small minority of men, while leaving many women—and many men for that matter—feeling used and emotionally unfulfilled."

What these secular writers miss, however, is the full biblical picture. "What marriage does is it doesn't just say, 'I'll be committed to you physically,' but it says, 'I'll be committed to you socially, economically, and physically.' And that's where real security, intimacy, and all of those benefits are possible."

2. From Natural to Unnatural (Romans 1:26-27)

The second spiral addresses same-sex relationships. "Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural sexual relations for unnatural ones" (Romans 1:26).

Kurt acknowledges the difficulty of this passage in our current cultural moment but emphasizes what the text actually says: "This passage says that you move from what's natural to what's unnatural. That is the downward spiral. And so what our culture might say is just our orientation, God says is unnatural."

3. From Fit to Unfit (Romans 1:28-32)

The third and final spiral is perhaps the most sobering: "Furthermore, just as they did not think it worthwhile to retain the knowledge of God, so God gave them over to a depraved mind" (Romans 1:28).

What follows is an extensive list of sins—wickedness, evil, greed, envy, murder, strife, deceit, malice, gossip, slander, pride, and more. Kurt's point? "The downward spiral is any step that we take on the slide away from God."

The Danger of "Good Sins"

One of the most convicting parts of Kurt's message draws on Ray Ortlund's concept of "good sins" versus "bad sins." Ortlund writes: "We feel the pain of our bad sins. But our good sins, they feel good, which makes them more poisonous. A man who commits adultery might feel bad about it, but a man who looks down on an adulterer probably feels good about that."

This echoes Jesus' teaching in the Sermon on the Mount, where he takes "sins that we're comfortable condemning" and forces us to deal with "sins that we're comfortable excusing." Looking with lust is like adultery. Hatred in your heart is like murder. The point isn't that consequences are identical, but that we're all on the slide somewhere.

"Even if you're standing at the top of the slide trying to hold yourself back, you're still on a downward spiral," Kurt warns. The consequences don't always progress to worse actions—fantasy can simply cause us to stop investing in real relationships; hatred can destroy community even without physical violence.

Grace at Every Stage

The hope of the gospel is that grace meets us wherever we are on the slide. "When we've gone all the way down the slide, we're at the bottom, and God just says, 'You're in a mess, and I'm going to pick you out of this.'" But grace also comes "when you're on the slide" as God "shines a light on something and helps you turn."

The key is recognizing that "the consequence of sin in this passage is more sin," and that true freedom comes from trusting that "the God who created us, who made us, and who gives us these passages, these words, is for us, that he made us and wants our best."

Questions for Reflection

  1. Where are you on the slide? Is there an area where you've been excusing "good sins"—gossip, judgment, fantasy, hatred—that God might be calling you to turn from today before the spiral continues?

  2. Do you truly believe God is for you? Kurt emphasizes that lasting change requires "confidence that the God who created us... is for us, that he made us and wants our best." How does doubting God's goodness keep you stuck in patterns of sin, and what would it look like to trust His grace more fully?

Dr. Kurt Bjorklund

Kurt is the Senior Pastor at Orchard Hill Church and has served in that role since 2005. Under his leadership, the church has grown substantially, developed the Wexford campus through two significant expansions, and launched two new campuses. Orchard Hill has continued to serve the under-served throughout the community.

Kurt’s teaching can be heard weekdays on the local Christian radio and his messages are broadcast on two different television stations in Pittsburgh. Kurt is a sought-after speaker, speaking at several Christian colleges and camps. He has published a book with Moody Press called, Prayers For Today.

Before Orchard Hill, Kurt led a church in Michigan through a decade of substantial growth. He worked in student ministry in Chicago as well as served as the Director of Outreach/Missions for Trinity International University. Kurt graduated from Wheaton College (BA), Trinity Divinity School (M. Div), and Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary (D. Min).

Kurt and his wife, Faith, have four sons.

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